The rules of dating regarding whether woman can "make the first move" is something that has befuddled many on the dating scene. 

Valentines Day draws near.

Some of you may have read about a forthcoming book “The End of Men” about the “shocking speed” with which the dominant position of men is changing forever.   It seems a little far-fetched to make such a radical suggestion, but as a dating person used to dealing w

Dating for men is a topic that comes up repeatedly because, it seems, men are less inclined to 'seek dating help', if I can put it that way.

The recent story in the Nelson Mail about the "man drought" in Nelson to some extent plays on the statistics that are pretty much evident everywhere in New Zealand - and in many other countries - that there are 22 per cent more single women than single men.  The reasons for this, i

A recent, much commented upon post on the Stuff website – Try Before You Buy – looked at the issue of living with someone before settling down into a long term relationship.

I was saddened to hear about the fact that Christchurch Cathedral is to come down, even if the result may not have been altogether unsurprising.  But as someone who has worked from Christchurch on Christchurch dating issues for almost five years - and as I'm due there again this week - I rea

Anyone man interested in successful dating would - or should - know that one of the factors that will place him a

I'm often asked by male clients who may have been on the New Zealand dating scene for a long time, "how do men attract women"?  It's a fair enough question and one that