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Politically Incorrect Psychologist Deals Blow To Pro-Smacking Lobby

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Chris Ford
Chris Ford

I didn't think that Nigel Latta would ever come out and say that our anti-smacking law was working. Today, he did just that.

Accompanied by Prime Minister John Key, the nation's favourite psychologist endorsed the law. Just a few months ago, Latta was an arch opponent stating that a little slap on the hand or the bum was good for children when they transgressed. Right now, he has probably become enemy number one of the pro-smacking lobby (probably pushing Sue Bradford and John Key down a few places). According to TV3, one of the leading proponents of the right to smack (I can't remember who) was reported to have made an "unrepeatable" remark when the reporter told him of Latta's conversion to the forces of darkness.

I really do have to applaud Latta, though, on this occassion. He was charged by Key with the umpteenth review of the law since it came into effect and was given wide scope to talk with anyone. What this self-styled politically incorrect parenting specialist found was that the law is functioning as intended. Latta reported that the number of smacking prosecutions taken in the last six months was minimal. This illustrates that the police's legal right to exercise discretion is being appropriately used. Therefore, we don't have every second parent in the country appearing in court for simply pushing their young child away from a hot element.

While the law has not done away with the scourge of child abuse, it has prompted all of us to think about the way we discipline our children. The resort to smacking has been a very easy but overused form of discipline and there needs to be a move away from this. Other measures, such as time out or raising a firm voice, should be used to show children where the appropriate boundaries are. I can appreciate that raising children is hard. While I'm not a parent, I do know many family and friends who are and it isn't an easy task. But of those parents I do know, an increasing number are not smacking their kids. This is a very encouraging sign for the future. Role modelling to kids that it is NOT okay to hit someone if they have done something wrong is a good thing too.

Anti-smacking advocates (like me) are very pleased that someone of Latter's stature has changed his view. With his reach into middle New Zealand, I would encourage him to take the message that 'it's not okay to hit a kid - ever!' into each and every living room.

No wonder the pro-smacking lobby are livid. If they have lost Latta, then who else could be preparing to desert the ship? I hope that many more pro-smackers could be preparing to do just that.

 

 

 

Comments

I think so many people miss

I think so many people miss the real point, that opponents of anti-smacking legislation have difficulty in coming out with.

A vast proportion of them do not want kids to be smacked, and are even against Parents having the right to do so, they simply see that giving the Police the right to smack parents (with a prosecution) is a greater evil, or at least a step backwards.

I personally know of far more cases of Police smacking people (especially teenage kids) than I do of parents smacking their kids and I think that if the Police could up their game, there would be less opposition to legislation like this.

Unfortunately checking

Unfortunately checking 'police prosecutions for parent's smacking' in no way reveals the realities of physical abuse that NZ children are subjected to by so-called righteous parents. Just recently, I've been told by a reliable source that a man in a prominent position disciplining by thrashing his son on the upper thigh with a rope; and another person told me that he punches a child around the head and ears on a regular basis=both are Bible Bangers who believe that 'spare the rod, spoil the child' justifies their assault on their defenseless children. Interestingly, the 2nd person was given a thrashing on a regular basis for any mistake or deed while the other possibly was as well.
Until we start appealing to the reason and heart of our children thus creating intelligence and empathy we will continue to have generations of child abuse and those children as adults repeating the pattern on their children, spouses, partners and any defenceless person or even animal.
Interesting isn't it that people in high places get away with what is assault even policemen?

What a Shrink!! May as well

What a Shrink!! May as well consult a Witch doctor or a tea leaf reader.

The Kids of Shrinks I've seen are some of the weirdest and most dysfunctional insecure species I have seen.

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